22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

[Dewayne2]

Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/ )

[RickD]

I think...call me old fashioned....you should wait until marriage. I am the father of a daughter as well.

[robinhoodnik]

This a creative new way to spam the forum?

[Arctic Blast]

First off...uhhh...unexpected topic.

Second...this guy is totally full of ****. I checked out this idiot's blog. What an f'ing joke. I've found that morons who crow on and on about how big of a man they are, like this 'genius', 99% of the time are complete and total liars, desperately trying to compensate of their total lack of feeling of self worth with false bravado. Read two things this idiot is posted, and it becomes obvious he's nothing but a hollow shell who probably does nothing more than quiver in the corner, cry, and try not to wet himself if a woman actually says a word to him beyond "Go away, I have pepper spray in my purse."

[ohms_law]

This a creative new way to spam the forum?

looks like it to me.
:rolleyes:

[dabruinss]

i have a 16 year old daughter and have threatened older boys already but none over 18. my god a 22 year old. his parents wouldn't even know he was missing after i got done with him. he would have lead weights tied to his ankles and i would drop him in a channel somewhere near where i fish so i could keep tabs on his body.:mad:

[dabruinss]

who is the a$$hole that put not sure.:eek: i have extra weights.

[Biggles]

Man, who cruises the MALL for chicks? That screams pedo. His conversations are ****ing stupid too. Tucker Max is a way better PUA than this poser.

[ohms_law]

who is the a$$hole that put not sure.:eek: i have extra weights.

Now there are two!
lol
:p

[dabruinss]

Now there are two!
lol
:p
me and my father make the weights ourselves so we have plenty to go around. lol:D

[ohms_law]

hehehe

I wasn't going to give the poll the dignity of a vote, but after you made a big deal out of someone voting "don't know", I couldn't resist.
;)

[dabruinss]

imagine if you voted no

[ohms_law]

Doh!
Missed opportunity.
:(

[HoustonGM]

I don't really think that I have a real problem with the age thing, as I think that at 16, you should be smart enough to know what you're doing. I don't have a problem necessarily with a 22 year old and a 16 year old dating. I mean, if two people enjoy each other's company, like each other, get along, have stuff in common, etc., who is anybody to say that they shouldn't date (and with dating usually comes physical intimacy)? (Also, keep in mind, that yes, once it gets to a certain age, it certainly enters the realm of 'wrong', but I think that 16, especially considering it's the age of legal consent, isn't necessarily wrong.) My issue with this guy is just, the entire manner in which he went about this. He went looking for girls to have sex with, and when that's your goal, I certainly believe that you should stick to adults. Personally, I think going looking for a quick **** is kind of whacked in itself, but if that's what you want to do, whatever. I think the guy is a scumbag just for that. If he had developed an actual meaningful relationship with this girl, and it led to a physical one, as long as both gave their consent, I wouldn't think there was anything wrong with the guy. The fact that he went looking for sex and the girl being underage didn't stop him, though, is what makes the guy a scumbag in my mind.

[robinhoodnik]

Well, if Dewayne2 don't post a second time soon I'm gonna go with "creative spam" and ban him.

[Reade]

his parents wouldn't even know he was missing after i got done with him. he would have lead weights tied to his ankles and i would drop him in a channel somewhere near where i fish so i could keep tabs on his body.

Nice idea, but no where near painful enough. I was thinking something along the lines of what American Indians used to do. Maybe something like cutting quarter sized strips of flesh off and then pouring some peroxide or alchohol on them. Or maybe let a starved dog chew on his nuts for awhile. Or sitting his *** on a wooden stake.

Yes I have a 4 yr old daughter, can you tell. Boys in this town better be prepared, I've got more ideas where those came from.

[dabruinss]

Nice idea, but no where near painful enough. I was thinking something along the lines of what American Indians used to do. Maybe something like cutting quarter sized strips of flesh off and then pouring some peroxide or alchohol on them. Or maybe let a starved dog chew on his nuts for awhile. Or sitting his *** on a wooden stake.

Yes I have a 4 yr old daughter, can you tell. Boys in this town better be prepared, I've got more ideas where those came from.
do you really think i would just drop him. hahahaha not a shot. i grew up in federal hill (for those who dont understand what i mean look at the sopranos):D

[robinhoodnik]

Nice idea, but no where near painful enough. I was thinking something along the lines of what American Indians used to do. Maybe something like cutting quarter sized strips of flesh off and then pouring some peroxide or alchohol on them. Or maybe let a starved dog chew on his nuts for awhile. Or sitting his *** on a wooden stake.

Yes I have a 4 yr old daughter, can you tell. Boys in this town better be prepared, I've got more ideas where those came from.

Eyelid removal and staking out on a sunny day? Covering in honey and staking him out on an anthill? Burial up to the neck, slightly below the high tide line? Live bait supply for shark hunting? ;) Mine's nine.

Lovecraft also mentioned Federal Hill. :cool:

[robinhoodnik]

Dewayne2 banned for 3 days. Presumed spammer.